I have a total of 2 dogs and, 12 cats............I never imagined this would happen and, unfortunately , I have a parent that's a narcissist which make the situation even worse. It all started when I was just 13 years old. My sister and, mother had a cat of their own. I've always wanted an orange cat. I use to have a tuxedo that was a stray but, my mom left him out one day and, he never came back. (Just a heads up, this will be a repeating situation.) one day, my mom brought home an orange shorthair. After 5 months, my mom threw her out the door. She told me not to worry because, she said that she will come back. She did come back a week later and, about 5 weeks after that, she had a litter of kittens. My mom refused to get her fixed because, it costs to much money for her. My mom would try to get rid of them when they weren't even eating solid food yet. I kept telling her they weren't ready yet but, she would still do it. She would lie to the people that wanted a kitten about, not knowing the difference between male and female so they would take them anyway. Some kittens would never get adopted so, my mom got stuck with them. After the cat getting pregnant, my mom still didn't learn her lesson about not getting a pet fixed.She left the female cat outside again and, got pregnant again. This went on for years. I'm 19 now. My mom doesn't have the patients for taking care of the animals. Whenever they do something bad,she just throws them out the door without a care. A total of 8 cats that died because, of them being put outside.if a cat has something medically wrong with them, my mom just won't give a d**. She just throws them outside and wait until the day they die and, when they die, she doesn't burry them. She just puts them in a garbage bag and, throws the carcasses in the garbage bin as if they were useless broken objects. My mom constantly blames me for having to many animals and, blames me for their actions. A 13 year old wouldn't be able to get a pet fixed because, they need guardian permission obviously. I don't understand how it's my fault. If she would have paid the 15 dollars to get the one female cat fixed, we wouldn't be having this problem. I really don't understand my mother at all. She says getting a pet fixed is too expensive but, she pays over 50 dollars a month on pet supplies. So, she is obviously doing it because, she doesn't want to. She talks about how they are all of "my" animals. I only consider my two dogs and a cat my pets. I have an old dog with arthritis and, she can't warn someone that she has to go to the bathroom anymore so, she just gets up and, goes immediately on the floor. I'm so fed up with getting yelled at and nagged about the animals in the house. it's irritating. She always says that she's going to put them in the shelter and, tell the people that she just found them. (AS IF THEY WOULD BELIEVE THAT STORY.) I don't see her doing that anytime now because of laziness . Whenever we run out of pet food,she talks to the cats and says, "sorry cats, she waited until the last minute to get you food. That's her being a smart Alec. She's says that she can't go to the store and buy them food because, I stay up late at night. Which doesn't make cense at all. She'll nag me by telling me "We don't have any ******* cat food." One time I said, " Then go buy some." Then she punched me in the face.it frustrates me so much that she blames me for her having too many cats. She threw the cat outside. She refused to get her fixed. Therefore, it's not my fault.what do you guys think? Am I to blame for her doing?
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